Many people scrimp and save in the hopes of having something left over for their children at their death. But as an estate planning attorney, I know that often times that hard-earned-by-mom-and-dad inheritance turns into a squandered opportunity for the kids. The money (much like lottery winnings) is quickly used on a new flat screen TV, that motorcycle they always wanted, a two-week cruise to the Caribbean, or the worst possibility: to fuel an addiction to drugs, alcohol, or ...