Most adults have been to at least one or two funerals, wakes, memorial services, or other end-of-life service. And most folks have a sense of what they would like for their own such service – big, small, somber, up-beat, formal, casual, traditional, modern, and of course cremation or burial. The problem, of course, is that many people fail to communicate their wishes to their loved ones before it is too late. This leaves family and friends guessing as to what the deceased would have wanted ...